okay firstly as you know i had a bacterial infection end august and was very sick for a long time....then i got a cold....then i burnt my hand....and now...i get a reposession notice...really....i think this isas bad as it gets anyway mailed them some stuff through and hope they will help me out and let me pay the arrears over the enxt few months but jeez i just want to curl up in bed its not as if we got any comfort food atm lol...might find some old pasta in the cupboard !!!!!
awww virtual hug coming at ya, life is pretty cack for many people so much for us being a world class country, the politicians know jack all.
awe my daughter just asked if we were going to be okay...brings a tear to your eye that does!!! ...waiting for them to answer the phone lol grrrrrrrrrrrrrrr >
biiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiig hug Jellytot Get in touch with your local Citizens Advice Bureau - the mortgage company have to go before a county court to have the repossession order put in place, and your CAB will provide you with free legal assistance who will even attend with you on the day. But before all this, talk to your mortgage company as they will always ALWAYS try to help before resorting to legal action. If you are too scared/worried to do this, then your local CAB can call on your behalf too. Chin up chuck xx
ive sorted it out as paying them an extra 230 a month on top starting november....if you could see my face its got the relief look on it all i hope is the attachment of earnings on the ex's 613 a month doesnt fail beginning on the month im about at my limit of stress now lol! Ill be going to the final fling with my stuff to sell so lets hope i can get this off the ground checked out any competition there really isnt any for handpainted stuff but a few other bits there are but they arent at the show im at so BIG TY for the hugs if i ever needed them it was today and probably the 1st of november when ill be calling to make sure the ex's money went in! then if it did i can probably relax a bit as i know ill get a warning if anything else is going to change and no more surprises feel sorry for the kids really not easy for them knowing he doesnt want to pay the maintenance and sits in his house this one (we both had) http://www.zoopla.co.uk/property/3-linnet-close/basingstoke/rg22-5pd/19400860 the swimming pool in the pic on the overhead map on the rh side hes had done 2 years ago at a cost of 70k then the conservatory was last year or just after 40k then a new kitchen and bose sound through the house new carpets a jacuzzi and a new bmw 4x4 lol now feel the rage lol!
the law is Marmitee in this regard - my old man left my mum shortly after I was born in 1972 - I have 2 older brothers. He never ever paid a penny. He's obviously just an arse who thinks its clever to punish you an yours - you're clearly much better off without him
sending you late hugs lady .. sounds like you got the worst bit sorted.. as for exs not paying maintenance.. PAH Im sure we could start a whole new thread on that one!! lol
hah im going to rip the tax office with all his dodgy deals if i dont have that in my bank account first week of november
it really really does .. would tell a story but best not as someone is bound to know someone who knows him!!!
lol yeah everyone knows him in my town thats why single for so long cant date anyone local id not put it past him to set me up in something hes rich and can pay for people to do things...found that out once or twice...i hate non payers who are rich fair play if they arent and they really cant afford much but when they can its out of order especially on the millions who work hard and do pay!...i paid him maintenance for the oldest until he was 19 who stayed with him
right thanks for the hugs im hugged up and finished the vodka off now *hic*......at least im warm now lol!!!! no heating here until sunday!!! as got no gas on lol...brrrrrr maybe a pair of rickys big undies will help ...i know ricky but i dot care anymore its all true he cant have me for lying
